Lover.ly Throwback Thursday, My 1984 Wedding Photo
My 1984 Wedding Photo

I was challenged by lover.ly to take a stroll down memory lane in their #TBT —wedding edition.

It’s kind of sweet since my hubby and I celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary this year. We decided to forgo the traditional party celebrations. We opted not to revisit Hawaii, where we honeymooned, but to take a vacation in Napa. Perhaps we thought we needed our world to be rocked because when we landed in San Francisco and finally arrived at our destination in Napa, there was a 6.0 earthquake.

Lover.ly Throwback Thursday; My paternal grandmother's 1934 wedding photo.
My paternal grandmother’s 1934 wedding photo.

I was first inspired to share my paternal grandmother’s wedding dress from a past generation (see above photo), but I decided that since I have my own milestone wedding anniversary, I should share my story.

When I said I do on September 8, 1984, in a small town in the USA, I had a beautiful outdoor garden wedding in a gazebo. I was grateful that it didn’t rain. I still have my wedding planning journal, which I used to jot down every last detail. As I browse through my thirty-year-old keepsake, I am reminded of my difficulties in planning my memorable day in my new hometown, which offered limited services. Where was lover.ly, the one-stop wedding commerce site, when I needed it?

Keepsake items from my 1984 wedding.
Keepsake items from my 1984 wedding (invitation, musicians, my pearls, favors, and announcement.)

My how times have changed over thirty years, everything available at your fingertips.  The most difficult finds in 1983 were a photographer and a chauffeured limousine.  To this date, these two things are still my greatest wedding woes. Enter lover.ly. It would have been nice to have a lover.ly when I needed to get inspiration, locate local services, get ideas for wedding colors, party favors, and the like without leaving Central Pennsylvania. My only choice for wedding favors was the personalized cocktail napkins and matchbook.

My 1984 Lover.ly Wedding Collage
My 1984 Lover.ly Wedding Collage ( I warned you about not finding a great photographer, thus not-so-good photos)

It’s 2014,  let’s say I am renewing my vows, I would do a formal church wedding instead of the hotel reception again, I would have a garden reception.  So now, let’s explore the offerings on lover.ly.com.

Since I am a traditional girl, I like lace and need an a-line silhouette to flatter my pear shape.  Lover.ly offers many styles, silhouettes, sizes, and colors. I even saw designs from my favorite designer, Teri Jon.  I opted for the Temperly London lace embroidered gown. I would like to believe this dress is a modern version of my 1984 wedding gown. I’m short, so I need a pair of fab heels to go with the stunning gown. As for invitation ideas, the site offers a great, excellent selection, but Classic Me isn’t going to go too contemporary.

Temperly London
Temperley London gown found on lover.ly.com

There is plenty of garden reception inspiration, favor ideas, decorating ideas, and even gifts for the bridal party and much-needed items for the reception. I even decided to change into something less formal for the garden reception. On lover.ly, I found a marvelous Marchesa short lace dress.

Garden Reception with all the many items that can be purchased via lover.ly, gifts for wedding party, personalized items, items for bride and groom.
There will be a garden reception with many items that can be purchased via lover.ly, including gifts for the wedding party, personalized items, and items for the bride and groom.

Regarding beauty for the big day, although I am a girlie girl, I have always shied away from looking too made-up. I opt for natural, soft colors. As for my eyelashes, I will add lashes to amp up my look for any special occasion.

Beauty products available on lover.ly.com
Beauty products available on lover.ly.com

Getting remarried? Renewing your vows? Was your daughter or son recently engaged? Your one-stop wedding shop, lover.ly, is the place.

p.s. Thank you, lover.ly, for the opportunity to participate in the #TBT: wedding edition.